{"id":153,"date":"2012-11-03T01:00:05","date_gmt":"2012-11-03T08:00:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.sexydomination.com\/blog\/?p=153"},"modified":"2026-07-28T12:40:16","modified_gmt":"2026-07-28T17:40:16","slug":"gagged-bound","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sexydomination.com\/blog\/gagged-bound\/","title":{"rendered":"gagged & bound"},"content":{"rendered":"

You come into my playroom like a small puppy, big eyes looking up at me you are sure to be gagged & bound<\/a> before you can ask “Please have mercy on me ,Mistress V”?<\/p>\n

In your feeble attempt to impress me tonight you come dressed in white thigh highs and matching \u00c2\u00a0heels ,you think your such a pretty sissy<\/a> don’t you?<\/p>\n

I raise my hand to his horrified look as my riding crop lashes the air comes down with a torrent of pain on your scared,pathetic little ass! “Ouchhhh” you cry out.<\/p>\n

I glare down at you and reply sternly “Did your mistress give you permission to speak, I do not think so now suffer!!!!!<\/p>\n

I swat your back with my whip as angry red marks trail up and down your back , a painful lesson learned to be sure.<\/p>\n

You wont be speaking out of tun anytime soon I would guess.<\/p>\n

Viciously Vindictive<\/p>\n

Veronika<\/p>\n

1*888*430*2010<\/p>\n

Bondage Phone Sex, And Why Rope You Cannot Feel Still Works<\/h2>\n

Because most of what rope does is not physical. Bondage phone sex<\/strong> works on stillness, helplessness and the sense of being handled by somebody who is taking their time, and all three of those are things a voice can do.<\/p>\n

The rope is the excuse. What men actually want is to be unable to leave, and being told not to move by somebody you have decided to obey produces almost exactly that.<\/p>\n

She Describes It Going On<\/h2>\n

Slowly, piece by piece, in an order. Wrists first usually, then arms, then chest, then whatever comes after. Each turn described, each knot placed, each pull tested.<\/p>\n

Men rush ahead in their heads and she will not go faster. The putting on is the session. Once you are tied there is nothing left to build toward, which is why a good Mistress spends half the hour on it.<\/p>\n

The Instruction Not To Move<\/h2>\n

This is what turns description into an experience. You are told to hold a position and there is nothing whatsoever enforcing it.<\/p>\n

Nobody is in the room. No rope exists. You stay because she said so, and every minute you stay is a minute you chose again. That is harder than being tied and men who have had both say so.<\/p>\n

What The Gag Does<\/h2>\n

Takes your words. Once she has described it in, you do not speak, and if you slip into sentences she stops and waits.<\/p>\n

On a phone call that sounds absurd and it is one of the strongest things on offer. You are now listening completely, because it is the only thing you are allowed to do, and a man who cannot talk hears a great deal more than one who can.<\/p>\n

Being Asked Questions You Cannot Answer<\/h2>\n

The cruellest use of a gag and every experienced Mistress knows it. She will ask you something direct, and then wait, and then remark on the fact that you have not answered.<\/p>\n

There is nothing you can do. That is the point, and it is a more precise sort of helplessness than the rope ever produces.<\/p>\n

Rope, Cuffs, Tape And Straps<\/h2>\n

Not interchangeable and she will ask. Rope is slow, deliberate and takes skill, and the time it takes is part of it. Cuffs are quick and clinical and reduce you to something being processed.<\/p>\n

Tape is impersonal and slightly frightening. Straps are institutional and carry a whole set of associations of their own. Say if you have a preference, because each one changes the entire temperature of the session.<\/p>\n

Predicament Rather Than Restraint<\/h2>\n

The version most men have not heard of and most enjoy the most. Not simply being held still, but being put in a position where holding still is work and where the only alternative is worse.<\/p>\n

It gives you something to actively do for the whole session, which keeps you inside it. Ask for it by name on <?= 1-888-430-2010<\/a> ?> and she will build the hour around it.<\/p>\n

Being Left<\/h2>\n

She will go away. Not far and not for long, but she will stop talking and leave you tied, and the silence is not a gap in the session.<\/p>\n

It is the session. Five minutes of being left somewhere is worth more than twenty minutes of description, and the men who come back for this are usually coming back for that.<\/p>\n

What You Can Do At Home<\/h2>\n

Nothing is required. A great many callers are sitting perfectly free in an armchair and it works exactly as well.<\/p>\n

If you do want to actually restrain yourself, tell her, and she will keep it to something you can get out of alone in a second. Nobody on this line will talk you into anything you cannot undo by yourself, and she will say so before you start.<\/p>\n

The Inspection Once You Are Tied<\/h2>\n

Almost every session has it. Being checked over, tested, adjusted, commented on, while you can do nothing about any of it.<\/p>\n

She will find things she does not like and she will say so plainly. Being assessed as an object being prepared, rather than criticised as a person, is a particular experience and it is one of the main reasons men ring for this.<\/p>\n

Why Being Unable To Leave Is Restful<\/h2>\n

This is the honest core of it and men rarely say it out loud. There is nothing to decide. You cannot get up, you cannot help, you cannot fix anything, and none of it is your responsibility any more.<\/p>\n

Men who carry a lot during the day find that enormously restful and are frequently embarrassed by how much they want it.<\/p>\n

The Untying<\/h2>\n

Described as carefully as the tying, and not rushed. A Mistress who ties you and then simply ends the call has done half the job.<\/p>\n

Coming out of it properly, piece by piece, with her still talking, is what makes the session finish rather than stop.<\/p>\n

Aftercare<\/h2>\n

The last few minutes come back to an ordinary voice and ordinary questions. Are you alright, have you got water, is everything where it should be.<\/p>\n

Anybody who hangs up on the timer is not doing this properly. On a session built out of helplessness it matters more than usual.<\/p>\n

What A First Call Looks Like<\/h2>\n

About half an hour, mostly the tying, one position, one stretch of being left. She will not put you in anything complicated because complication does not land while you are still working out what she means.<\/p>\n

By the third call she can put you into a position with two words, and that is where it gets properly good.<\/p>\n

Positions She Will Actually Use<\/h2>\n

Hands behind the back is the standard opening and it is chosen because it changes your whole posture rather than because of the arms. Kneeling with the hands somewhere specific. Bent forward over something with the weight on your shoulders.<\/p>\n

None of it is complicated and that is deliberate. A position you have to think about is one you are managing, and managing is the opposite of what she is trying to produce. Simple positions held for a long time do far more than elaborate ones held briefly.<\/p>\n

Being Talked About Rather Than To<\/h2>\n

A tool that only works once you are tied and gagged, and it is devastating. She stops addressing you and starts describing you, as though to somebody else, in the third person.<\/p>\n

You are in the room and you are no longer in the conversation. Men who have had it done properly rate it above almost anything physical, and it costs nothing but a shift in how she speaks.<\/p>\n

The Fear Of Being Left Too Long<\/h2>\n

Entirely imaginary and entirely effective. She will tell you how long, and then she will not come back at that time, and she will not explain herself afterwards.<\/p>\n

Nothing has gone wrong. She is exactly where she said she would be and she is watching a clock you cannot see. That gap between what you were told and what happened is the sharpest tool in the whole session.<\/p>\n

Where It Meets Everything Else<\/h2>\n

Bondage is a frame rather than a fetish and almost everything on this site fits inside it. Interrogation, teasing, worship, humiliation, flogging and denial all get considerably sharper once you cannot move.<\/p>\n

So say what you actually want to happen as well as saying bondage. The rope is the setting. What she does to you while you are in it is the session, and she would rather build that around your answer than guess.<\/p>\n

Why It Is A Good First Call<\/h2>\n

Because almost nothing is asked of you. You are told where to be and told not to move, and that is the whole of your job for the hour.<\/p>\n

There is no character to hold, no persona to sustain, nothing to describe about yourself and no way to be bad at it. Men who are nervous about the whole idea of ringing often start here for exactly that reason.<\/p>\n

Starting<\/h2>\n

Ring <?= 1-888-430-2010<\/a> ?> and say bondage. Say rope or cuffs, and say whether you want a gag, because that changes how the whole hour is structured.<\/p>\n

Everyone available is listed at bdsm phone sex<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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