{"id":190,"date":"2013-04-07T23:22:34","date_gmt":"2013-04-08T06:22:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.sexydomination.com\/blog\/?p=190"},"modified":"2026-07-28T11:48:43","modified_gmt":"2026-07-28T16:48:43","slug":"breath-play-with-a-sadistic-mistress","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sexydomination.com\/blog\/breath-play-with-a-sadistic-mistress\/","title":{"rendered":"breath play with a sadistic mistress"},"content":{"rendered":"

Give yourself a treat get some breath play<\/a> with me your sadistic mistress<\/a>!<\/strong><\/p>\n

You get very hard while you daydream about me taking you from work on a collar and leash <\/strong><\/p>\n

back to my playroom we go and the fun begins I will put you in a vinyl bodysuit complete with hoses to control your breath. \u00c2\u00a0I can poke and prod you with my various paddles & whips as you start to pass out I will keep that blood pumping. I will stuff your mouth with fruit or stockings what ever I feel fits the moment.<\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n

Get kinky and dial that phone for your own good or I will have to punish you!<\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n

Veronika<\/strong><\/p>\n

1*888*430*2010<\/strong><\/p>\n

Breath Play Phone Sex, And What It Actually Consists Of<\/h2>\n

It is anticipation, description and control of pace. It is not instruction in how to restrict anybody’s breathing, and any Mistress worth ringing will tell you the same thing in the first minute.<\/p>\n

Breath play phone sex<\/strong> lives in the moment before, in the waiting, and in the sense of somebody else holding something of yours. All of that is available over a phone line. None of it requires you to do anything to yourself.<\/p>\n

Why The Phone Version Is The Safe One<\/h2>\n

Because she is not there and cannot be, so nothing is being done to you by anybody. What is on offer is the psychology, which is where nearly all of the appeal was in the first place.<\/p>\n

Men who ring about this are almost always after the feeling of being at somebody’s mercy rather than after any physical sensation. She can give you all of the first and none of the second, and that is not a compromise.<\/p>\n

The Hand That Is Not There<\/h2>\n

The central image, and she will build the whole session out of it. Where her hand would be. How it would feel to have it there and not be doing anything yet. The waiting for it to.<\/p>\n

Described well, that lands harder than most things that actually happen, because the imagined version is exactly as slow as she wants it to be and never has to arrive.<\/p>\n

Counting And Holding<\/h2>\n

She will count. She will tell you when to hold and when to let go, and she will make the intervals uneven so you cannot settle into a rhythm.<\/p>\n

Being told when to breathe out is a very small instruction that turns out to carry an enormous amount of weight, because it is the one thing nobody has ever needed permission for.<\/p>\n

Why Not Knowing The Length Matters<\/h2>\n

She will not tell you how long. That is deliberate. A number gives you something to endure towards, and enduring towards a number is a completely different experience to waiting on somebody else’s decision.<\/p>\n

Uncertainty is the tool. It is also the reason the session works with no physical element in it whatsoever.<\/p>\n

The Throat As A Place Rather Than An Action<\/h2>\n

A great deal of this is about attention rather than pressure. Being described. Being touched in words. Having somebody spend a long time on one part of you and say what they think about it.<\/p>\n

Men who assumed this fetish was entirely about sensation are usually surprised to find the described version does most of what they wanted.<\/p>\n

Fear And Trust In The Same Sentence<\/h2>\n

That is the actual content of it. Somebody holding something and choosing, repeatedly, not to. Every round of that builds more than the last, and it can go on for a very long time without anything happening at all.<\/p>\n

The trust is the fetish. The fear is what makes the trust worth something.<\/p>\n

What A Good Mistress Will Not Do<\/h2>\n

She will not tell you how to do anything to yourself. She will not talk you through a technique. If you ask, she will decline and carry on with the session, and she will not lecture you about it either.<\/p>\n

That is not squeamishness. It is that the appeal is psychological, she can deliver all of it, and there is no reason to go anywhere else.<\/p>\n

Restraint Instead<\/h2>\n

Many of these sessions turn into described bondage, because it scratches most of the same itch. Being held. Being unable to move. Being at somebody’s disposal while they take their time.<\/p>\n

If you rang for breath play and end up on rope, that is not a substitution. It is usually what you were after underneath it.<\/p>\n

Choking Talk And Ordinary Roughness<\/h2>\n

A lot of what men mean by this is language rather than anything else. Being spoken to a particular way, being handled in description, being told what she would do.<\/p>\n

That is entirely available and it is most of what these calls consist of. Say plainly on <?= 1-888-430-2010<\/a> ?> which part you actually want and she will go straight to it.<\/p>\n

Who Rings For This<\/h2>\n

Men who want to be at somebody’s mercy in a way that has weight to it. It attracts people who find ordinary submission a bit too safe and want something with a genuine edge in the fantasy.<\/p>\n

It is also, quietly, one of the most common things men ask about and one of the least common things they admit to having asked about.<\/p>\n

Aftercare Is Not Optional Here<\/h2>\n

The session is built out of fear, even imagined fear, and the person who built it puts it down properly at the end. Ordinary voice, ordinary questions, a few minutes of nothing in particular.<\/p>\n

Anybody who hangs up the second the timer stops is not doing this job well.<\/p>\n

The Three Versions Men Ask For<\/h2>\n

The first is language. Being spoken to a particular way, being told what she would do, being handled entirely in words. It is the most common request by a distance and it is what most men actually mean when they ring about this.<\/p>\n

The second is described restraint, where the appeal turns out to be being held rather than anything about breathing at all. She will usually spot that within ten minutes and steer there without making a point of it.<\/p>\n

The third is the slow held version, which is pure anticipation. Her hand described as being somewhere, doing nothing, for a very long time. Nothing happens for the entire session and that is exactly the product.<\/p>\n

Why Men Are Slow To Ring About This One<\/h2>\n

Because they expect to be lectured. They assume the first thing out of her mouth will be a warning, or a refusal, or a small speech about being careful, and nobody wants to spend money being told off.<\/p>\n

She will not do any of that. She will take the request the same way she takes any other, work out what you are actually after, and run it. The only thing she will not do is talk you through doing anything to yourself, and she will simply not go there rather than making an issue of it.<\/p>\n

What A First Call Usually Turns Into<\/h2>\n

Something adjacent, most of the time. Men ring about this and end up in described bondage, or in a session about being at somebody’s mercy generally, and hang up having got exactly what they wanted by a different route.<\/p>\n

That is not a bait and switch. It is that the underlying want is nearly always about surrender rather than about breathing, and a Mistress who does this often can hear the difference before you can.<\/p>\n

The Pace She Sets<\/h2>\n

Slow, and slower than you will want. Men push for escalation constantly on these calls and she will hold the pace against you, because the moment something happens the anticipation is spent and there is nowhere left to go.<\/p>\n

A good session on this leaves you at the edge for forty minutes and never crosses it. That is the skill and it is why an experienced Mistress is worth ringing for this rather than anything free.<\/p>\n

Starting<\/h2>\n

Ring <?= 1-888-430-2010<\/a> ?>, say breath play, and say whether you want the language, the described restraint, or the slow held version. She will do the rest.<\/p>\n

Everyone available is listed at femdom phone sex<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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