{"id":206,"date":"2013-07-15T04:33:37","date_gmt":"2013-07-15T11:33:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.sexydomination.com\/blog\/?p=206"},"modified":"2026-07-28T12:44:54","modified_gmt":"2026-07-28T17:44:54","slug":"come-and-serve","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sexydomination.com\/blog\/come-and-serve\/","title":{"rendered":"Come and serve"},"content":{"rendered":"

Come and serve<\/a> , on your knees<\/a> read to please you <\/strong><\/p>\n

will definitely learn your place in my playroom!<\/strong><\/p>\n

whips and chains will be a small part of my game the sick and depraved things<\/strong><\/p>\n

that I do to your asshole will make you go insane.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Stretching it out with my propeller strap on while you are bent over restrained to my altar.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Just as you think you can take no more and you are ready to utter the safe word I gag and blindfold you!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Dirty slut you love it when I own your ass then make you know you are un worthy of any one else but your <\/strong><\/p>\n

cruel mistress!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Never forget it or I will remind you with punishment.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Veronika<\/strong><\/p>\n

1*888*430*2010<\/strong><\/p>\n

Submissive Service Phone Sex, And Why It Is Restful<\/h2>\n

There is nothing to decide. Somebody else has worked out what is needed, what the standard is and when it is finished, and your entire job is to meet it.<\/p>\n

Submissive service phone sex<\/strong> is the least dramatic thing on this site and it is what a great many men actually want when they finally ring.<\/p>\n

Being Useful Rather Than Being The Point<\/h2>\n

The centre of it. You are not the focus of the session. There is something that needs doing, and you are the one doing it, and she is getting on with her own evening.<\/p>\n

Men who find being the centre of attention uncomfortable do extremely well here. Nothing is about you, which for the right person is the entire appeal.<\/p>\n

Duties, And Why They Are Deliberately Dull<\/h2>\n

She will give you tasks and they will not be exciting. That is on purpose, because anybody can be obedient during something interesting.<\/p>\n

Being obedient through something tedious, to a standard, while she says almost nothing, is the actual test and it is what separates this from a fantasy about being told what to do.<\/p>\n

Standing And Waiting<\/h2>\n

The most underrated instruction on this line. Told where to stand, told to wait, and then left there while she does something else and does not speak.<\/p>\n

Five minutes of that does more than any amount of description. There is nothing to perform and nowhere to put your attention except the fact that you are waiting because she said so.<\/p>\n

Asking Permission<\/h2>\n

For everything, and this is where the shape of it lives. To speak. To move. To stop. To ask a question at all.<\/p>\n

It sounds small on paper and it is relentless in practice. Having to ask before every single thing removes the last of your autonomy far more thoroughly than any instruction would.<\/p>\n

Being Spoken To Like Staff<\/h2>\n

Not unkindly and not warmly. The register a person uses with somebody who works for them: brief, polite, entirely uninterested in how you are finding it.<\/p>\n

That specific tone does more than cruelty or affection would. It places you exactly, without anybody having to say anything about position at all.<\/p>\n

The Inspection<\/h2>\n

Standing still while she goes over the work slowly and says what she finds, without urgency and without much interest in your explanation.<\/p>\n

She will find things wrong and state them plainly rather than cruelly, which is worse, because there is nothing to argue with in a plain statement.<\/p>\n

Correction Without A Scene<\/h2>\n

Nothing dramatic happens. It is noted, you do it again, and it is not mentioned afterwards.<\/p>\n

That flatness is the hardest part of this version. A punishment would at least be attention. Being quietly corrected and moved past gives you nothing at all to hold on to.<\/p>\n

Being Trusted With Something<\/h2>\n

The part almost nobody expects to matter. Being given something that actually needs doing, being expected to manage it, and being told afterwards that it was right.<\/p>\n

Approval earned from somebody who does not hand it out does a great deal of work, and considerably more than any insult would.<\/p>\n

Rituals That Carry Between Calls<\/h2>\n

How you greet her. How you announce that something is finished. What you say when you are dismissed. What time you are expected.<\/p>\n

None of it dramatic and all of it the actual content. Ritual is what makes the third call start where the second finished rather than at the beginning.<\/p>\n

How Much Of This Is Sexual<\/h2>\n

Sometimes none of it, and that is completely ordinary. A significant number of these calls are duties and standards and inspection and nothing else at all.<\/p>\n

Nobody will steer you toward anything else. Say what you want on <?= 1-888-430-2010<\/a> ?> and that is exactly what you will get.<\/p>\n

Why Men In Charge All Day Ring For This<\/h2>\n

Because responsibility is exhausting and nobody ever offers to take it off you. Here somebody does, completely, for an hour, and the relief is larger than most men expect.<\/p>\n

They are usually slightly embarrassed by how much they want it. That is extremely common and she will not remark on it.<\/p>\n

Long Term Positions<\/h2>\n

This is the fetish most suited to running for months. Standards set on one call and held to on the next. A record of how you have been doing. Expectations that carry.<\/p>\n

Ask for the same Mistress. It is the difference between a session and a position, and a position is what most men who want this are after.<\/p>\n

Tasks You Can Actually Do At Home<\/h2>\n

Most are ordinary and that is deliberate. Tidying something to a standard she set. Standing somewhere for a set time. Doing something in a particular order and reporting when it is finished.<\/p>\n

Nothing needs buying and nothing would look like anything if somebody walked in. The instruction is what makes it service, not the task, and she picks things that fit whatever room you are actually in.<\/p>\n

Reporting Back<\/h2>\n

She will want to know it is done, in a particular form of words, and she will not accept a summary. What you did, in what order, and what is not right about it.<\/p>\n

Having to describe your own work honestly to somebody who is going to ask a follow up question is what turns a chore into a session.<\/p>\n

The Standing Order<\/h2>\n

Many of these arrangements have one thing that carries between calls. Something done at a set time daily. Something never done. A way you must speak in your own head about a particular thing.<\/p>\n

It is invisible, costs nothing, and puts her into your ordinary week at a moment she chose. That is where service stops being an hour and becomes a position.<\/p>\n

When You Do Not Feel Like It<\/h2>\n

Which will happen, and it is the actual test. Service on a night you are keen is not service. Service on a night you would rather not is.<\/p>\n

She knows that and will not soften anything. Say you are not in the mood and she will note it and tell you to get on with it, which is the entire reason you asked somebody else to hold this.<\/p>\n

Being Dismissed<\/h2>\n

Every session ends with it and it matters more than it sounds. You are not simply hung up on. You are told that is enough, told you may go, and told when you are expected next.<\/p>\n

Being formally released is what closes it properly. A call that just stops leaves the whole thing hanging, and any Mistress who knows the job will not do that to you.<\/p>\n

Why This Is A Good First Call<\/h2>\n

Because nothing is asked of you except doing what you are told. No character to hold, nothing to describe about yourself, no persona to sustain, no way to be bad at it.<\/p>\n

Men nervous about ringing at all very often start here, and a fair number never move on, because it turned out to be the thing they actually wanted.<\/p>\n

Starting<\/h2>\n

Ring <?= 1-888-430-2010<\/a> ?> and say service. Say whether you want it strict or simply matter of fact, and say if you want nothing sexual in it at all.<\/p>\n

Everyone available is listed at domination phone sex<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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