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Big bare breasted mommies<\/a> breastfeeding you as I spank your ass until it is blistered red.<\/strong><\/p>\n

This will teach you a lesson for looking at the naughty picture’s of cheerleader’s all tied up and topless<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

What was that you said you wanted us to humiliate you even more than we already have disciplining you <\/strong><\/p>\n

in front of your sow of a wife and making her play with her hairy pussy? I suppose that I will take your request <\/strong><\/p>\n

of more punishment’s in consideration as I spank you harder. You are such a sorry excuse for a man pathetic!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Veronika<\/strong><\/p>\n

1*888*430*2010<\/strong><\/p>\n

Spanking Phone Sex, And How It Works Without Anybody Touching You<\/h2>\n

She cannot reach you, so you do it. That is the whole mechanism and it is the reason spanking phone sex<\/strong> is harder rather than easier than the real thing.<\/p>\n

Being put over a knee removes your choice. Being told to do it to yourself, on a count, at a pace she sets, hands the choice straight back and then makes you keep taking it while she listens.<\/p>\n

She Can Hear It<\/h2>\n

Men do not expect this and it changes the whole session. She can hear whether you did it, how hard, and whether you slowed down when it started to matter.<\/p>\n

You cannot fake it to somebody who is listening for it. That single fact is what makes this work over a phone line and it is why she will not accept a description in place of the sound.<\/p>\n

Position First, Always<\/h2>\n

Before anything happens she puts you somewhere. Over the arm of a chair. Bent over a table. Hands flat and staying flat. Trousers where she says and not before she says.<\/p>\n

The undressing is instructed rather than assumed and it is deliberately slow. Men rush this part on their own and she will send you back to do it properly, which is itself the first correction of the session.<\/p>\n

The Count<\/h2>\n

She sets a number and you count them out loud. Miss one, lose your place, or let your voice go flat and it starts again from the beginning.<\/p>\n

The counting sounds mechanical and it is the heart of it. You cannot drift off inside a count. You have to stay present for every single one, which is precisely what she wants and precisely what makes it hard.<\/p>\n

Hand, Hairbrush, Belt, Paddle<\/h2>\n

Each one is a different session and she will ask which. The hand is warm and slow and personal and builds. A hairbrush is domestic, which is why it has the reputation it has. A belt is a different sound entirely and carries a different set of associations for most men. A paddle is impersonal and businesslike.<\/p>\n

If you do not have one of them, say so. She will work with whatever is actually in the room rather than making you improvise badly.<\/p>\n

Maintenance Versus Punishment<\/h2>\n

Two completely different sessions and men often do not know there is a distinction until it is explained.<\/p>\n

Punishment is for something. There is an offence, stated plainly at the start, and the session is a consequence of it. Maintenance is for nothing at all. It happens on a schedule because she said it would, and there is nothing you could have done to avoid it.<\/p>\n

Maintenance is the one men underestimate. Being dealt with routinely, for no reason, by somebody who does not need one, sits differently to being punished.<\/p>\n

The Lecture<\/h2>\n

Half of a proper spanking session is talking. Before, about what this is for. During, in the gaps. After, about whether you have understood.<\/p>\n

Men who ring for the physical part are usually surprised to find the lecture is what stays with them. Being told off properly by a woman who is entirely calm is its own thing and has very little to do with the rest.<\/p>\n

Corner Time<\/h2>\n

Afterwards, and it is not an afterthought. Sent to a corner, told to stay, told exactly how, and left there in silence for considerably longer than feels reasonable.<\/p>\n

Nothing is happening and nothing is being said. That is the point. The session is over and you are still in it, entirely because she has not said you are finished.<\/p>\n

Why It Suits Men Who Feel Guilty About Something<\/h2>\n

There is a very old logic in this one and it is not complicated. Something is owed, it gets paid, and afterwards it is settled.<\/p>\n

Whether the thing is real or invented for the session makes no practical difference. The relief on the far side of it is identical, and a great many men are ringing for that rather than for anything erotic at all.<\/p>\n

How Hard, And Who Decides<\/h2>\n

She does, inside limits you set at the start. Say on <?= 1-888-430-2010<\/a> ?> where the ceiling is and she will hold it even if you ask her not to halfway through.<\/p>\n

Men always ask to go further mid session and a good Mistress does not treat that as consent. The limit you set while you were thinking clearly is the one that counts.<\/p>\n

Marks, And Being Honest About Them<\/h2>\n

She will ask what it looks like and she will ask again later. Men exaggerate on the first pass and correct themselves on the second without noticing they have done it, and she works from the second answer.<\/p>\n

Being caught in a small exaggeration by somebody who did not make a fuss about catching you is its own particular humiliation. She will not waste it.<\/p>\n

Aftercare<\/h2>\n

The last few minutes come down. Ordinary voice, checking you are alright, telling you it is finished and that it is settled.<\/p>\n

For the men who came here for the guilt version, that last sentence is the whole reason they rang, and a Mistress who knows what she is doing will make sure it gets said.<\/p>\n

Over The Knee, And Why It Matters That You Cannot Be<\/h2>\n

The classic position is the one thing a phone call genuinely cannot give you, and every Mistress who does this has a way around it. Usually the arm of a sofa, or a bed with your weight forward, described in enough detail that your body ends up in roughly the right shape.<\/p>\n

What you lose is being held. What you gain is that nothing is holding you, so every second you stay in position is a second you chose. Men who have had both say the second is harder to sustain, and that it is the version that stays with them.<\/p>\n

Counting Backwards<\/h2>\n

A small variation that does a great deal. Instead of counting up towards a finish, she has you count down from a number she picked, so you know exactly how much is left the entire way through.<\/p>\n

Knowing is worse than not knowing. There is nothing to hope for and nowhere for your mind to go, and the last three are considerably longer than the first thirty.<\/p>\n

Being Made To Ask For It<\/h2>\n

Before she starts, and again in the middle. Asked to say what you are about to get and why, in a full sentence, and asked again if the first attempt was mumbled.<\/p>\n

It is the same principle as the count. A thing you said out loud yourself cannot be something that was merely done to you, and that is exactly the distinction she is working on.<\/p>\n

Domestic Discipline And The Long Version<\/h2>\n

Some men run this as a single session and some run it as an arrangement. Rules set on one call, checked on the next, with a standing consequence attached to breaking them.<\/p>\n

That version does not need much on the phone at all. Once the rules are real, most of the work happens in the days between, and the call is where the account gets settled.<\/p>\n

Starting<\/h2>\n

Ring <?= 1-888-430-2010<\/a> ?>, say spanking, and say whether it is punishment or maintenance. Say what is in the room. That is enough for her to build a full session out of.<\/p>\n

Everyone available is listed at strict mistress phone sex<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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