{"id":254,"date":"2014-05-06T22:49:43","date_gmt":"2014-05-07T05:49:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.sexydomination.com\/blog\/?p=254"},"modified":"2026-07-28T10:48:29","modified_gmt":"2026-07-28T15:48:29","slug":"bdsm-is-my-game","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sexydomination.com\/blog\/bdsm-is-my-game\/","title":{"rendered":"bdsm is my game"},"content":{"rendered":"

Bdsm<\/a> is my game & causing humiliation<\/a> is so great!<\/strong><\/p>\n

While you grovel at my feet un-able to make eye contact I laugh <\/strong><\/p>\n

wickedly at how pathetic you try to be a big boy!<\/strong><\/p>\n

So utterly ridiculous you think you could please a girl with that tiny little peepee.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Maybe you would be better off just paying me to correct your behavior every day for the rest of your <\/strong><\/p>\n

life. What now you thinking about that dirty dream you had about me last night? Yes I know all your dark desire’s how you fantasize about binding and gagging me as you pitifully try to \u00c2\u00a0have sloppy sex with me.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Grow some ball’s so I can slice them off next time we play!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Veronika<\/strong><\/p>\n

1*888*430*2010<\/strong><\/p>\n

What BDSM Phone Sex Actually Is, Once You Strip The Marketing Off It<\/h2>\n

It is a real session. Not a script being read at you, not a woman pretending to be interested while she folds laundry with the phone under her chin. You ring, you get a Mistress who does this because she likes it, and between you the two of you build something neither of you could have built alone.<\/p>\n

The reason BDSM phone sex<\/strong> works at all is that most of what happens in a dungeon happens in your head anyway. The rope is not the point. The waiting is the point. The not knowing what she is going to say next is the point. Every one of those things travels down a phone line completely intact, and one or two of them travel better, because you have nothing to look at and nowhere at all to hide.<\/p>\n

The First Two Minutes Are Boring And That Is Deliberate<\/h2>\n

She will ask what you are into. She will ask what you have done before, if anything, and she will not be impressed or unimpressed by the answer. She will ask what is off the table, she means it, and she will not push past it later to see whether you were serious.<\/p>\n

Men are always thrown by how ordinary this part is. You expected to be barked at from the first syllable. Instead you get a woman asking sensible questions in a normal speaking voice, and somewhere around the third or fourth answer you notice you have already told her something you have never said to anybody.<\/p>\n

That is where it starts. Not before, and no amount of theatre in the first minute would get you there faster.<\/p>\n

Why Being Told Is So Different From Being Asked<\/h2>\n

Nobody tells you what to do any more. You are the one who decides, all day, every day, and every one of those decisions is yours to get wrong and yours to answer for. For a great many men who ring here the appeal is not pain and it is not humiliation. It is one hour where somebody else holds the whole weight of it and you do not have to.<\/p>\n

She will tell you to do something small first. Stand up. Put the phone on speaker and put your hands behind your back. Nothing dramatic, nothing you would be embarrassed to be caught doing. And you will notice that you did it before you decided to, and that noticing is the entire experience compressed into one second.<\/p>\n

Everything after that is the same mechanism at increasing weight.<\/p>\n

What The Sessions Usually Involve<\/h2>\n

Bondage, described so precisely that you can feel where the rope crosses and where it pulls. Discipline, which in practice means rules and consequences for breaking them. Humiliation, if that is what you came for, and skipped completely if it is not. Chastity, orgasm control, service, worship, inspection, interrogation.<\/p>\n

Some men want a whole scene with a beginning and an end. Some men want to be inspected and told what is wrong with them and nothing else at all. Both are ordinary requests. Neither will get a flicker of surprise out of the woman on the other end.<\/p>\n

The Mistresses here do not share a house style. Some are patient and quiet and let a silence run until you fill it. Some are fast and cruel and enjoy watching you scramble to keep up. Ring <?= 1-888-430-2010<\/a> ?> and tell her which of those two sentences you reacted to, and you will be put with the right one rather than whoever picks up.<\/p>\n

Pain Is Optional And Most Callers Skip It Entirely<\/h2>\n

This surprises people, and it puts men off who would otherwise have rung years ago. The assumption is that BDSM means being hurt, so a man who has no interest in pain assumes the whole thing is shut to him.<\/p>\n

It is not. Control, denial, ritual, service, humiliation, ownership and worship are all available with no pain anywhere in them. A large share of the calls that come in have no physical element at all beyond posture and waiting.<\/p>\n

If you do want it, it is instructed rather than inflicted, obviously. She tells you, you do it, you report back honestly, and she decides what happens next. Plenty of men find that considerably harder than being held down and hurt would be, because you have to keep choosing to obey, over and over, with nobody physically making you.<\/p>\n

What Makes A Session Go Badly<\/h2>\n

Two things, and both are fixable inside the first minute.<\/p>\n

The first is not saying what you actually want. You ring wanting one specific thing, you are too embarrassed to name it, you take a general session instead, and you hang up having had a perfectly decent hour that was not the hour you rang for. Say the thing. She has heard it. She has heard considerably worse this week from a man with a much better job than yours, and she thought about it for exactly as long as it took to answer.<\/p>\n

The second is treating it as a performance you have to be good at. You do not have to be good at this. You are not being marked and there is no standard you are failing to meet. She is doing the work. That is what you rang a professional for.<\/p>\n

How Long People Actually Stay On<\/h2>\n

First calls run short. Twenty minutes, sometimes less, because a man rings the first time to find out whether he can go through with it and hangs up as soon as he knows the answer. Almost all of them ring again inside a fortnight and stay considerably longer.<\/p>\n

Regular callers run forty minutes to an hour and build something continuous, where the Mistress remembers the last call and picks up where it stopped. That is where this becomes genuinely good, and it is the one thing you cannot get from anything free.<\/p>\n

What Happens To Your Head Afterwards<\/h2>\n

Men are unprepared for this part. You expect to hang up and feel embarrassed. What actually happens for most people is a flat, clean, slightly stunned calm, the sort you get after hard exercise, and it lasts for hours.<\/p>\n

The embarrassment, if it comes at all, arrives the next morning and burns off in about ten minutes. By the second call it does not come at all.<\/p>\n

Discretion, Plainly Stated<\/h2>\n

It bills as MadPro LLC. Nothing on the statement says what it was or where it came from. There is no account to create, no email address taken, no profile, no password sitting somewhere to be found later.<\/p>\n

Nobody asks your real name unless you decide to give one, and a fair number of men never do. She will call you whatever the two of you agree on, and that name will be waiting the next time you ring.<\/p>\n

Where To Start If You Have Never Done This<\/h2>\n

Pick the Mistress whose description did something in your chest, not the one who sounds the nicest. Ring <?= 1-888-430-2010<\/a> ?>. Say it is your first call, which genuinely changes how she runs the first ten minutes, and then let her run it instead of trying to help.<\/p>\n

You can read through everyone on offer at sexy domination phone sex<\/a> first if you would rather know who you are getting. Most men do not. Most men ring at the point where the deciding has become the hardest part of the whole thing.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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