{"id":62,"date":"2011-03-21T10:46:19","date_gmt":"2011-03-21T17:46:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.sexydomination.com\/blog\/?p=62"},"modified":"2015-03-31T14:04:45","modified_gmt":"2015-03-31T21:04:45","slug":"smoking","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sexydomination.com\/blog\/smoking\/","title":{"rendered":"Smoking"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.sexydomination.com\/morgan.html\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone\" src=\"https:\/\/www.madisonsmommys.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/03\/phonemistress.JPG\" alt=\"\" width=\"400\" height=\"309\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I know this little <a href=\"https:\/\/www.phoneamommy.com\/mommys\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">prick<\/a> likes to see women smoking he get so <a href=\"https:\/\/www.phoneamommy.com\/fucking.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">fucking<\/a> hard he will cream his pants at times.When i get him on the phone the little prick doesn&#8217;t know that i have a cig waiting to lite up just because i know he is going to start moaning when he hears me lite it up.This poor prick can&#8217;t contain himself.<\/p>\n<p>He jacks himself off time and time again as he hears me drawing smoke from this sweet cig that he loves so much even though he doesn&#8217;t smoke himself he loves the smell of them.<\/p>\n<p>Oh but just wait till he calls again i have a very nice surprise for him laughing oh he will not like what is in store for him.<\/p>\n<p>MistressMorgan<\/p>\n<p><!-- sd-extended --><\/p>\n<h2>Why A Smoking Fetish Works So Well Over The Phone<\/h2>\n<p>Of everything on this line, this is the one that suits the telephone best, and men who<br \/>\nhave only ever used pictures for it are usually surprised.<\/p>\n<p>A photograph gives you a woman holding a cigarette. It cannot give you the sound. The<br \/>\ndraw, the pause, the exhale a fraction too close to the mouthpiece. It cannot give you the<br \/>\ntiming, and the timing is the entire fetish.<\/p>\n<p>Smoking fetish phone sex is one of the few things where the medium is actually better than<br \/>\nbeing in the room, because in the room you would be watching. On the phone you have nothing to<br \/>\ndo but listen, and every sound arrives right against your ear.<\/p>\n<h2>Indifference Is The Point<\/h2>\n<p>The thing men chase here is not really the smoke. It is being less interesting than a<br \/>\ncigarette.<\/p>\n<p>She lights one in the middle of what you were saying. She takes her time with it. She<br \/>\nanswers you eventually, when she has finished the drag, and there is no apology in it. You are<br \/>\nwaiting on something she is doing for herself, and you do not rate a pause.<\/p>\n<p>That is a very specific humiliation and it is far colder than being insulted. An insult is<br \/>\nattention. This is not.<\/p>\n<h2>The Details Men Ask For<\/h2>\n<p>Be specific, because it varies wildly and she cannot guess.<\/p>\n<p>The brand. Menthol or not. Long or regular. Whether she inhales deeply or holds it in her<br \/>\nmouth. Whether there is lipstick on the filter and what colour. Whether she uses a holder.<br \/>\nWhether she talks while exhaling, which some men need and others cannot stand.<\/p>\n<p>Where the ash goes matters to a lot of callers and men are shy about saying it. Into a<br \/>\ntray, onto the floor, or somewhere else entirely. Say which. She will not blink.<\/p>\n<h2>Smoke And Being Used As An Ashtray<\/h2>\n<p>The natural next step for many men, and it is not really about ash.<\/p>\n<p>It is about being furniture. A thing she uses without looking, kept nearby because it is<br \/>\nconvenient, not because it is wanted. Where foot worship makes you low, this makes you useful,<br \/>\nwhich some men find far worse.<\/p>\n<p>If that is the direction, say so early and she will build the whole call around it rather<br \/>\nthan arriving there in the last five minutes.<\/p>\n<h2>Where It Pairs<\/h2>\n<p>Beautifully with tease and denial, because the pacing is already built in and she can make<br \/>\nevery permission wait for the end of a cigarette. Also with foot worship, with being ignored,<br \/>\nand with the older woman fantasy where she has been doing this longer than you have been<br \/>\nasking for it. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sexydomination.com\/morgan.html\">Mistress Morgan<\/a> lists<br \/>\nthe smoking fetish among her specialties and she runs it exactly this way, with the boredom<br \/>\nintact.<\/p>\n<h2>If You Have Never Asked For This Before<\/h2>\n<p>Men are oddly embarrassed about this one, more than about far heavier things, and the<br \/>\nreason seems to be that it feels too small to bother a Mistress with.<\/p>\n<p>It is not small. It is one of the oldest fetishes there is, it is extremely common, and it<br \/>\nis one of the few where the phone genuinely beats every other format. Ask for it by name and<br \/>\ngive her the details above, and you will get a much better hour than a man who says &#8220;do the<br \/>\nsmoking thing&#8221; and hopes.<\/p>\n<h2>How Long To Book<\/h2>\n<p>Longer than you would think, because the mechanism is waiting.<\/p>\n<p>Ten minutes barely covers one cigarette and the conversation around it. Twenty gives her<br \/>\nroom to make you wait properly. Forty is where the indifference has time to become genuinely<br \/>\nuncomfortable, which is the point of it. The<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.sexydomination.com\/rates.html\">rates page<\/a> has every length written out<br \/>\nand the connection fee is charged once rather than per minute, so longer is cheaper by the<br \/>\nminute.<\/p>\n<h2>The First Time A Man Admits It Out Loud<\/h2>\n<p>Almost nobody leads with this one. It comes out sideways, usually about twenty minutes into<br \/>\na call that was booked for something else entirely.<\/p>\n<p>He will mention, as though it were nothing, that she sounded like she was smoking. She will<br \/>\nsay she was. There will be a silence that goes on slightly too long, and then he will ask,<br \/>\ncarefully, whether she would do it again.<\/p>\n<p>That is how this fetish surfaces about nine times in ten. Men will ask for a great deal<br \/>\nheavier things without blinking and then go shy about a cigarette, and the reason seems to be<br \/>\nthat it feels too ordinary to be a fetish at all. As though it does not qualify.<\/p>\n<p>It qualifies. It is one of the oldest there is and it is far more common than the men asking<br \/>\nfor it believe.<\/p>\n<h2>What Actually Happens On The Call<\/h2>\n<p>Less than you would think, and that is the point of it.<\/p>\n<p>She talks. She lights one somewhere in the middle of a sentence, without announcing it. You<br \/>\nhear it. The conversation carries on around it, and every so often there is a pause you know<br \/>\nthe shape of and she says nothing to fill.<\/p>\n<p>Men expect to be given a performance. What they get is a woman doing something for herself<br \/>\nwhile they wait, and being made to wait for the end of a drag before you get an answer does<br \/>\nsomething that a description of smoking never would.<\/p>\n<h2>Why It Is Never Really About Health Or Smell<\/h2>\n<p>People who do not have this fetish assume it must be about the taste or the smell, and it<br \/>\nalmost never is.<\/p>\n<p>It is about the fact that she is doing something bad for her, in front of you, and does not<br \/>\ncare what you think about it. It is a small act of not being answerable to anyone. Men who<br \/>\nspend their working lives being sensible tend to find that considerably more affecting than<br \/>\nanything explicit.<\/p>\n<p>Which is also why the bored version always beats the seductive version. A woman performing<br \/>\nsmoking at you is selling something. A woman smoking while you wait is not.<\/p>\n<h2>Asking For It Without Having To Explain Yourself<\/h2>\n<p>You do not need a speech. Ring, and when she asks what you are after, say you have a smoking<br \/>\nfetish. That is the entire conversation.<\/p>\n<p>If you want to add detail, add it then rather than working up to it over half an hour.<br \/>\nBrand, menthol or not, lipstick or bare, whether you want her talking through the exhale or<br \/>\ngoing quiet for it. Thirty seconds of that and she has everything she needs.<\/p>\n<p>What you should not do is book a call for something else and hope to steer into it. Men try<br \/>\nthat constantly and it wastes twenty minutes of an hour they paid for. Nobody here is going to<br \/>\nreact to the request, and the sooner it is said the sooner the actual call starts.<\/p>\n<p>If you would rather not say it out loud at all the first time, text chat has no connection<br \/>\nfee and works perfectly well for exactly this reason. Plenty of men start there and move to the<br \/>\nphone once the words have been used once.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ring when you are ready.<\/strong> <a href=\"tel:18884302010\">1-888-430-2010<\/a>. Billed discreetly as MadPro LLC, and nobody on this line is going to rush you.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I know this little prick likes to see women smoking he get so fucking hard he will cream his pants at times.When i get him on the phone the little prick doesn&#8217;t know that i have a cig waiting to lite up just because i know he is going to start moaning when he hears &#8230; <a title=\"Smoking\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/www.sexydomination.com\/blog\/smoking\/\" aria-label=\"More on Smoking\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1147,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[360,359,362,358,1],"tags":[165,6,168,11,166,167,174,8,173,69,100,170,13,9,169,172,162,171,164,175,176,163],"class_list":["post-62","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-bdsm","category-domination","category-fetishsex","category-phonesex","category-sexydomination","tag-biker-sex","tag-body-worship","tag-cuckold","tag-cuckolding","tag-diaper","tag-diapesex","tag-domina","tag-dominant-older-woman","tag-dominate","tag-female-domination-phone","tag-fetish-phone-sex","tag-fetish-sex","tag-financial-domination","tag-mommy-dommy","tag-mommy-sex","tag-older-woman","tag-phone-sex","tag-roleplaying","tag-sex","tag-smoking","tag-smoking-fetish","tag-worship"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/www.sexydomination.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/sd-smoking.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":525,"url":"https:\/\/www.sexydomination.com\/blog\/sissy-slut-for-mommy\/","url_meta":{"origin":62,"position":0},"title":"Sissy Slut for Mommy","author":"Domme","date":"August 9, 2015","format":false,"excerpt":"I am typically a submissive when it comes to sex, but there is something about a sissy slut that just does it for me! 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