{"id":832,"date":"2017-04-25T21:17:30","date_gmt":"2017-04-26T02:17:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.sexydomination.com\/blog\/?p=832"},"modified":"2026-07-28T19:07:51","modified_gmt":"2026-07-29T00:07:51","slug":"domination-mistress-phone-sex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sexydomination.com\/blog\/domination-mistress-phone-sex\/","title":{"rendered":"Strict Mistress Phone Sex and the Rules That Follow You Home"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-833\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sexydomination.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/tsdb.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"212\" height=\"238\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\">Get over here and start licking in between my toes you <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sexydomination.com\/blog\/cuckold-humiliation\/\">submissive slut<\/a>! I am in a punishing mood and I don&#8217;t want you to think by my sweet voice that I am going to go easy on you! I am The mistress and I am a very strict one So start taking your time or I am going to put you back inside your cage and you will be in there until I tell you otherwise understand me? Now get up and go grab me my <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sexydomination.com\/blog\/a-menu-of-female-domination\/\">strap on<\/a> so I an fuck you like you have been begging me to. After I place it on I have you get back down on your knees. Then I want you to open your pretty mouth nice and wide for me and take this cock in your mouth and suck it like you want me to fuck you with it! Convince me call me for some <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sexydomination.com\/\">Domination Phone Sex!<\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.sexydomination.com\/blog\/dominated-dr-tawny-phone-sex-part-3\/\">Tawny<\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\">888-430-2010<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\">Or click <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sexydomination.com\/bdsm-chatroom\/\">HERE<\/a> to chat with a Phone SexMommy<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: left\">What makes a Mistress strict, and why sweet is never soft<\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">You heard my voice and you relaxed. That was your first mistake and I let you make it on purpose.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">A strict Mistress is not the one who screams. Screaming is theatre and it burns out inside ten minutes. Strict is quiet. Strict is the woman who says a thing once, in a perfectly pleasant tone, and then waits. The waiting is the entire discipline. You will fill that silence by obeying, because the alternative is sitting in it while I say nothing at all, and you will find you cannot bear that. I do not raise my voice at you. I lower it. And you lean in.<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: left\">The rules I set on our first call<\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">Strict means there are rules, and that the rules exist before you get excited and after you have finished. Here is what I expect from the first minute.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">You address me properly. Mistress, or Ma&#8217;am. Not my first name, and never hey. Get it wrong and we stop and do it again until it is automatic. You ask permission to speak while I am giving instruction, not because I want you mute, but because a man who has to ask before he opens his mouth learns very quickly how badly he wants to.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">You do not touch yourself until I say. Not once. I will hear it if you do. You do not come without asking, ever, and the asking is the point, because I want to hear what it costs you. And you answer honestly the first time. Lie to me and the punishment is not for the thing you did, it is for the lie, and it is always worse.<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: left\">Standing orders between calls<\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">This is what separates a strict Mistress from a fun one, and it is the part most men have never actually had. When we hang up, you are not off duty. You are out of my sight, which is a very different thing.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">I set standing orders. You may be denied until I say otherwise, and I will know, because you are going to report. You may have a task to finish before the next time we speak, something small and humiliating and perfectly ordinary looking to anybody watching. You may sleep with the plug in. You may be told exactly what you are permitted to wear under your work clothes on Tuesday.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">When you call me next, the first thing I do is inspect. You will tell me what you did, what you failed to do, and how many times you thought about breaking a rule and did not. I will know if you are shading the truth. I always know. That is what makes it real. The call ends. My hand does not lift. Every Mistress here runs her house differently, and you can read the rest of them under <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sexydomination.com\/blog\/get-reacquainted-with-mistress-le-fay\/\">mistress phone sex<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: left\">Punishment, and how I decide<\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">There is a difference between the punishment you want and the punishment you have earned, and a strict Mistress never confuses the two.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">The kind you want is easy. You misbehave a little on purpose so I will get my hands on you. I can see that coming from a mile off and I will absolutely still deliver it, because watching a grown man engineer his own spanking is delicious.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">The kind you have earned is a different animal. That one is not fun. That one is me taking away the thing you were most looking forward to, calmly, and then carrying on with the call as though nothing happened while you sit in it. That one is denial with an actual number attached and no negotiating it down. That one is being made to say out loud, in your own words, exactly what you did and why it was disappointing.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">I keep my word in both directions. If I promise you a reward you will get it. If I promise you a consequence you will get that too, and the certainty is the whole reason any of this works on you.<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: left\">Have this ready before you call me<\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">Be undressed and kneeling before you dial. Headphones, so my voice is in your head and your hands are free. Toys within arm&#8217;s reach, your cage key if you wear one, water for afterwards. Door locked, phone charged, and nothing in the next hour you need to look presentable for.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">Come to me prepared and I will give you the whole hour. Come to me fumbling and the first ten minutes go on your correction instead, and I promise you will not have chosen that. If you are new to kneeling and want the gentler road in, start with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sexydomination.com\/blog\/hardcore-bdsm-phone-sex-part-1\/\">submissive phone sex<\/a> and work up to me.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Get over here and start licking in between my toes you submissive slut! I am in a punishing mood and I don&#8217;t want you to think by my sweet voice that I am going to go easy on you! 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