{"id":915,"date":"2017-09-11T00:12:56","date_gmt":"2017-09-11T05:12:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.sexydomination.com\/blog\/?p=915"},"modified":"2026-07-28T19:07:50","modified_gmt":"2026-07-29T00:07:50","slug":"hardcore-bdsm-phone-sex-part-1","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sexydomination.com\/blog\/hardcore-bdsm-phone-sex-part-1\/","title":{"rendered":"Submissive Phone Sex: What a BDSM Call Feels Like From Your Knees"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-917\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sexydomination.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/janey11.jpe\" alt=\"\" width=\"303\" height=\"227\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\">Well Well Well, what do we have here? \u00a0Was you trying to escape out of my <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sexydomination.com\/blog\/bdsm-is-my-game\/\">bdsm dungeon<\/a>? Get over here and kneel before your <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sexydomination.com\/blog\/cruel-mistress\/\">mistress<\/a> and give me a good reason for not punishing you, you drop down to your knees begging and pleading with me to not punish you and telling me that you will be good. I put on your collar and a chain and walk you to the table and lay you down on it and then grab some rope and ties your hands and feet apart and then take my little shocker toy and shock each of your nipples and the place a hood over your head t take away some of your senses. Then I take my flogger and lightly whack you right on your balls with it and your penis you jerk and try to wiggle. I then take the butt plug and stick it right in your man pussy and gently wiggle it in and out Call me for some <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sexydomination.com\/\">Domination Phone Sex!<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: left\">What it is like from your side of the phone<\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">Everybody writes about the Mistress. Nobody writes about you, the one kneeling with the phone pressed to your ear and your heart going like a rabbit. So let us talk about your side of it, because that is the half that actually matters when you are the one taking it. If you want to choose the woman who does it to you, go and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sexydomination.com\/blog\/femdom-domination\/\">pick your dominatrix<\/a> first. If you want to know what it is going to feel like, stay here on your knees with me.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">The first thing that happens is the wait. You dial and there is that half second of ring where you could still hang up. Most of you have hung up before. That little window is part of it, and I want you to notice it, because the moment you do not hang up is the moment you have already knelt. Everything after that is detail.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">Then you hear me, and here is what surprises men every single time. My voice is warm. It is soft. It does not sound like the leather and boots you had playing in your head. That softness is not mercy, sweetheart. It is the reason you will do things on this call that you would never have agreed to in writing.<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: left\">The first ten minutes, and why you cannot lie to me<\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">You cannot see me and I cannot see you, so you assume you can perform. You cannot. I do not need eyes. I have your breathing, and your breathing tells me everything.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">I hear the catch when I use a word that lands. I hear the half second of silence before you answer a question you did not want asked, and that silence is louder than anything you say next. I hear it when your hand moves and you think I did not notice, and I will tell you to stop, and you will stop, and being caught is going to undo you far more than the order did.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">Men come to submissive phone sex thinking it is a lesser version of the real thing. It is not. Take away the visual and every other nerve you own goes hungry. You listen harder. You obey faster. Your whole body starts waiting on the next sound out of my mouth. Being laughed at is its own appetite, and if that is your flavour there is a whole run of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sexydomination.com\/blog\/hardcore-humiliation-phone-sex\/\">humiliation phone sex<\/a> waiting for you.<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: left\">How to prepare before you kneel<\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">The best calls are the ones you set up for properly. Do this and you will get twice the session out of me.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">Lock the door and put the dog out. Nothing kills a scene faster than you flinching at a noise in the hallway. Get off speaker and use headphones, so my voice is inside your head and your hands are free, because I am going to want your hands.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">Lay your things out within reach before you dial. Your plug, your lube, your rope, your clamps, your cage key, whatever you own. If I have to wait while you rummage in a drawer, I will make you pay for the interruption, and you will not enjoy how. Have water, because you will need it and you will not think to get it later.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">Undress before you call. Do not make me ask. Arriving already stripped tells me you came here to be used and not to negotiate. Then pick a position and hold it, on your knees, on the floor, or standing at attention with your hands behind your back if I say so. The body teaches the head, and a body that is already kneeling stops arguing.<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: left\">Tell me where the edge is so I can hold you on it<\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">Give me your hard limits at the start, plainly and without shame. Not because I intend to be gentle with them, but because a Mistress who knows exactly where your edge sits can walk you right up to it and keep you there, shaking, for as long as she feels like it. Vagueness makes me careful. Specifics make me cruel. Choose.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">Same with your word. Pick one, tell me what it is, and then understand that I am going to spend the rest of the call finding out how close I can get you to needing it. If you want something colder and harder than this, a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sexydomination.com\/blog\/domination-mistress-phone-sex\/\">strict mistress<\/a> will take you further still.<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: left\">After I let you come down<\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">When it is finished I do not simply hang up on you. That is the part the fantasy leaves out and the part that keeps men coming back.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">I bring you back slowly. I talk to you in that same warm voice while your breathing settles and the shaking stops. I tell you that you were good, and I mean it. You will feel wrung out and a little raw and strangely light, and you should sit with that for a minute before you stand up.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">Drink your water. Eat something. Be kind to yourself for the rest of the night. The men who look after themselves after a hard session are the ones who can go further next time, and I fully intend for there to be a next time.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\">Janey<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\">888-430-2010<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\">Or click <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sexydomination.com\/bdsm-chatroom\/\">HERE<\/a> to chat with a Phone sex mommy!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Well Well Well, what do we have here? \u00a0Was you trying to escape out of my bdsm dungeon? Get over here and kneel before your mistress and give me a good reason for not punishing you, you drop down to your knees begging and pleading with me to not punish you and telling me that &#8230; <a title=\"Submissive Phone Sex: What a BDSM Call Feels Like From Your Knees\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/www.sexydomination.com\/blog\/hardcore-bdsm-phone-sex-part-1\/\" aria-label=\"More on Submissive Phone Sex: What a BDSM Call Feels Like From Your Knees\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":1149,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1,360,359,865,361,362,358],"tags":[356,235,138,6,93,71,87],"class_list":["post-915","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-sexydomination","category-bdsm","category-domination","category-domination-phonesex","category-domme","category-fetishsex","category-phonesex","tag-abdlphonesex","tag-ass-play","tag-bdsm-fetish","tag-body-worship","tag-bondage","tag-domination-phone-services","tag-femdom"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/www.sexydomination.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/sd-bondage.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":852,"url":"https:\/\/www.sexydomination.com\/blog\/domination-fetish-phone-sex\/","url_meta":{"origin":915,"position":0},"title":"Domination fetish Phone Sex","author":"Domme","date":"May 21, 2017","format":false,"excerpt":"Get down on your knees Sissy And I want you to walk up to each of your Mistresses and kiss their panties and I want you to\u00a0 Thank them for what ever they want you to thank them for! 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