goth femdom night

I met a real sexy goth guy the other night at this goth femdom party.

It was at a big darkly lit mansion on a very vast hill the moon was full and I was ready to dominate.

He was wearing very tight pvc pants and a ball gag with nipple clamps, he walked over to me and pulled his ballgag out of his mouth and looked me up and down then he said “I would do anything to be your sub my Gorgeous Mistress.” and he started to cry what a pitiful,sexy thing.

I looked at him and gave him permission to be my sub “You’ll do” was all I said he proceeded to receive my collar and I led him on a nice tight leash introducing him as my puppy to all the other Mistress’s I saw.

My puppy kept trying to hide under my long velvet black skirts I kept kicking him out from under them.

“Bad Dog” I scolded with a laugh he will learn when I take my flogger to him.

He looked up at me with his big puppy eyes and I pet his head.

I bet he would look so cute in some shackles and chains,the twisted thoughts are endless that I am brewing.

He has no idea what he is in for.

All the care a Human puppy needs,

Mistress Veronika

1*888*430*2010

What A Gothic Dominatrix Is, And Why It Is Not A Costume

The black lipstick is not a look somebody put on for the photograph. If you have found your
way here searching for a gothic dominatrix rather than just a dominatrix, you already know the
difference matters, even if you would struggle to explain why.

The difference is temperature. A gothic Domme runs colder and slower. There is less shouting
and more silence. The aesthetic is not decoration on top of the domination, it is the same
instinct expressed twice: a preference for the dark, the formal, the ritual and the patient
over the loud and the immediate.

Why This Particular Corner Attracts The Men It Does

Interesting thing about the men who ask for this specifically. They are rarely the ones who
want to be screamed at. They want atmosphere, ceremony and a woman who takes the whole thing
seriously rather than treating it as a bit of fun.

There is something almost devotional in it, and that is not an accident. Gothic imagery
borrows heavily from religious imagery, and so does submission. Kneeling, confession, penance,
the loss of self in something larger and colder than you. Men who feel that pull tend to feel
it in both places at once.

What A Session Actually Sounds Like

Slower than you expect. She does not rush and she does not fill silences.

Expect ritual. Expect to be told to do things in a particular order and to be corrected for
getting the order wrong. Expect her to make you wait, not as a tease but because she has not
finished deciding yet.

Expect the language to be more formal than in an ordinary femdom call. Not archaic, but
deliberate. She chooses her words and she expects you to choose yours, and sloppiness gets
picked up on.

Where It Overlaps With Everything Else

Gothic domination is a register rather than an act, so it runs through almost anything.

It sits particularly well with bondage, with knife and blood play, with hypnosis, with the
vampire fantasies men are usually too self-conscious to name, and with the long slow denial
that suits a woman who is not in any hurry.
Mistress Veronika takes the darker
end of it, and Mistress Angel is the
gothic one on this line, twenty seven and openly spoiled about it.

The Vampire Question

Men ask around this rather than for it, so let us name it.

Blood play, marking, being fed on, being kept. It is one of the oldest fantasies there is
and it is a control fantasy wearing a costume: someone decides you are hers, takes something
from you, and you have no vote.

Nobody here is going to laugh at you for asking. It is a good deal more common than the men
asking for it believe.

If The Aesthetic Is Half Of Why You Are Here

That is fine. It is half of why she is here too.

Tell her what you want her in. Lace, leather, corsetry, boots, the specific shade of red.
She will use it, and having something concrete to picture makes the call sharper for both of
you. A man who has thought about it properly always gets the better session.

Ritual, And Why It Matters Here More Than Anywhere

Most femdom calls are about what happens. Gothic domination is about the order it happens
in, and that is the whole difference.

She will give you a sequence. Kneel, then speak, then wait. Do it out of order and she will
make you start again, not with anger but with the patience of somebody who has all evening.
The repetition is not filler, it is the point, and men who have felt the pull of ceremony
anywhere else in their lives tend to recognise it immediately.

That is also why these calls run long. Ritual does not compress.

Corsetry, Lace And Being Told What She Is Wearing

Description does a great deal of the work in a gothic call, more than in almost any other
kind, because the aesthetic is half of what drew you.

She will tell you what she has on and she will take her time about it. What is laced, what
is not, what she has to unfasten, what stays on for the whole call. Men who think this is
scene-setting before the real thing are missing that it is the real thing.

Tell her what you want her in. She will use it.

Slow Denial And The Long Game

Gothic domination suits denial better than almost anything else, because neither of you is
in a hurry.

Rules that hold between calls. Permission that has to be asked for and is usually refused.
A woman who will make you wait days rather than minutes and who genuinely does not care how
that feels for you. If that is what you want, say so on the first call, because it needs
setting up rather than improvising.

The longer sessions suit this far
better than a quick twenty minutes.

Goth Domme, Gothic Dominatrix, Or Just Dark

These get used as though they mean the same thing and they do not, which is worth two
minutes before you ring.

A goth Domme is somebody for whom the subculture came first and the
domination second. The music, the clubs, the decades of it. The aesthetic is who she is rather
than a service she offers.

A gothic dominatrix is the register described above: cold, formal, ritual,
patient. Some are goths and some are not, and the men who want this are usually after the
temperature rather than the record collection.

Dark femdom is broader again and covers the heavier acts without any
particular aesthetic attached. Knife play, blood, fear play, the things that sit at the far
end.

You may want one, two or all three. Say which, because she will run a noticeably different
hour depending on the answer, and most men have never been asked to separate them before.

Ring when you are ready. 1-888-430-2010. Billed discreetly as MadPro LLC, and nobody on this line is going to rush you.